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David Mai – Psychological Counselling

What we do

At the centre is a structured process: together we examine thought patterns that stand in your way, develop a better understanding of your emotional reactions, and try out new approaches in everyday life. I work with methods from cognitive behavioural research — from psychoeducation to cognitive restructuring to behavioural experiments. The aim is not just short-term relief, but lasting stability.

How we work

The framework is guided by the principles of client-centred therapy according to Carl Rogers: I meet you with empathy, without judgement, and authentically. You are the expert on your own life — I bring the tools and the space in which change becomes possible.

Why it matters

My view of humanity is shaped by existential philosophy, particularly the work of Viktor Frankl. Suffering, uncertainty, and inner conflict are not disorders to be eliminated — they are part of being human. Finding a conscious way to engage with them, discovering meaning, and developing one's own answers: that is not a sign of weakness, but of maturity.

"The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change."

Carl Rogers

The 6-Phase Model of Psychological Self-Leadership

This model describes a clear, structured process for understanding, regulating, and sustainably changing inner burdens. It combines insights from cognitive behavioural research, humanistic psychology, and existential philosophy — translated into practical, everyday steps.

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1

Psychoeducation

Understanding what is happening

Change begins with clarity. This phase is about making the mechanisms of stress, tension, or avoidance understandable. Those who understand how emotions arise and why they persist immediately experience more orientation and control.

2

Cognitive Understanding

Recognising & reframing thoughts

Here you learn to identify automatic thoughts, evaluations, and mental patterns. The goal is not "positive thinking", but more realistic, helpful thinking that reduces burden and opens room for action.

3

Emotion Regulation

Influencing inner states

Building on phases 1 and 2, tools are taught for calming, accepting, and flexibly regulating intense emotions. This phase strengthens the ability to remain stable and capable of action in difficult moments.

4

Goal-Directed Behaviour

Step-by-step progress

The focus is on concrete, goal-directed behaviour: steps that bring you closer to your concerns, values, and goals. Instead of getting stuck in old patterns, we develop manageable behavioural steps together — clearly structured, well prepared, and always at your pace.

5

Reflection & Integration

Rediscovering the why

Psychological change lasts longer when it is connected to values, identity, and personal meaning. In this phase, achievements are reflected upon and embedded in a coherent personal narrative: What have I learned? What am I doing this for?

6

Long-term Stabilisation

Creating stability

In conclusion, a clear plan emerges: How do I recognise early warning signs? Which strategies help me in the long run? How can I handle setbacks without questioning the entire process? The aim is a sense of stability.

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